Narcissistic Women-Prowling for the Right Man
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If you pay close attention you can spot a narcissistic woman who is after the Alpha Man in the room. First, they are dressed for action. They are wearing outfits that will get maximum male attention. It can be subtle but it is powerful and compelling to the male. Showing some leg if it is well sculptured and of course, the right amount of cleavage is part of the calling card. These women are obsessed with their looks and their figures. They literally watch themselves in the mirror regularly to size up how irresistible they are. Narcissistic femme fatales are often addicted to aesthetic procedures that keep them looking dewy and youthful. They don't talk about these secret obsessions that keep their bodies perfectly toned and their faces shining. Bottom line----they are looking to catch a highly successful, driven, confident Class A Man whether he is married or not. If they have a profession this is their vocation. I have watched these women work a room and they are "good." They have learned to display good manners on the surface. Slowly they place themselves next to the most desirable man in the room that fits their specifications--lots of money, properties, physically attractive, confidence. They gracefully swoop in. They get physically close to this fellow and use seductive but subtle eye contact and clever body undulations to maximize the impact. They know when they have snagged the guy. Men lock on and can't let go. These narcissistic women know how to keep these captives happy with sex, pandering to their egos, hanging on their every word, pretending that the man is in charge.
Narcissistic women don't care if their dream man is married or not. His wife can easily be dispatched. The narcissistic woman doesn't give a thought to the fact that she is breaking up a family. That's their problem. Actually, the NW believes that she is the best thing that ever happened to her chosen man. Some narcissistic women seal the deal after the new marriage by getting pregnant and having a couple of children with this guy to secure her power position financially. These women control everyone in this new family. They make all of the important decisions. The man relinquishes his free will to his narcissistic wife.
When the NW has wrenched every last narcissistic supply (homes, money, social connections, great lifestyle) from this man she often move on if she finds another victim who will provide her with a headier position of power. The NW moves often without looking back, even abandoning her children, to seek a wealthier, more generous new partner. Narcissistic women only care about themselves and their winnings. They play a ruthless game; they are truly predatory and can never be trusted. Preening themselves, they are always prepared to take the next step that will provide them with ultimate power over all the "right men." To learn about the narcissistic personality disorder in-depth, visit my website: thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 7/21/2011 4:04 PM 
Categories: married to narcissist, mental health, narcississtic personality, interpersonal relationships, narcissistic personality, narcissistic mother, great wealth, self help. mental health, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissism, female narcissists, married to a narcissist, narcissistic mothers
Tags: narcissistic women on the prowl ruthless narcissistic women
Categories: married to narcissist, mental health, narcississtic personality, interpersonal relationships, narcissistic personality, narcissistic mother, great wealth, self help. mental health, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissism, female narcissists, married to a narcissist, narcissistic mothers
Tags: narcissistic women on the prowl ruthless narcissistic women
O M G! This discribes my sister!!!! She is lose and on the prowl (again) as we speak! Her ex husband is ruined. He is now having to start over in his 50's.....
Once she gets them she shows her ugly side.... and these idiots stay with her untill they lose everything!
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I am 49 recently found pictures of my wife with another man in a hotel room. We have been married for 9 years and her reaction when confronted was cold, callous and she blamed me. Not once has there been an I am sorry in fact her answer was I bet you thought the picture was pretty hot!! She has completely shut the light off on me and has left me with a legal nightmare to clean up, without one ounce of empathy. I believe she had been setting me up and I disrupted her plotting by finding the pictures earlier then she intended me to. I have been left dazed and confused, without closure and feeling that my time with her was completely worthless. I do feel like an idiot, but didn't want to believe that I was living with someone so ruthless and evil. My best advice if any, is to listen to people when you first get involved with these "mental cases", when I think back there were a lot of people telling me to stay away from her, and I didn't listen. I drank the cool aide, much like the guy in the picture has. He is married and has 3 children, lots of money and his life is about to get ruined much like I feel mine has been. From what I have read on this blog, I guess I will be better off when she is out of my life for good. But starting over at my age was not my plan for life. I have been narc'd and it's ending pretty commonly. It is awful!!
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My husbands, brothers wife is an envious narcissist obsessed with my life and husband. She will stop at nothing to ruin our relationship. She has stalked me, yelled at me, vandalized my car and harassed me for years. She makes comments about my friends, whom she does not know, such as where they live; even specifics on having a same shirt as my husband. When I am in her presence alone she will just stare at me coldly, not acknowledging my hellos and/or slam doors in my face. She turned her children against me. They wont even look at me without looking at her first for approval. We were recently married, and when we got engaged she completely lost it and forged my husbands name off of a mortgage he owns with his brother. I feel this was some sort of punishment to my husband for not choosing her. My husband walked away and did not prosecute because it would ruin his family. I believe this action empowered her even more. I changed jobs and she became obesessed with working where I am employed. Someshow she located a co-worker of mine and started harassing and stalking her to get a job where we work. I had to file a report at work to protect my co-worker. My husband and I live about 30 min from the sister in law and her stalking continues. She is not welcome in my home but is obsessed with doing so. She has made comments about every person who has been in my home, which she would only know if she was watching my home constantly. She continuously spreads rumors to family members on my husbands side to defame my character and turn everything around, that I am the problem. I avoid her at all costs, but have to see her at family functions which is difficult to say the least. If we are at a public gathering, she is on her best behavior but makes sure to get jabs in here and there when others aren't paying attention. She constantly changes her look to match mine: hair color, hair cut, clothing, accessories. I changed my hair 3 times in 3 months just to make sure I wasn't losing it and, lo and behold, her hair matched mine each month. She has gotten her nose done and Botox injections to look younger; I am 6 years younger than her. I truly believe she wants to look like me to entice my husband. I'm at my wits end. How do i stop this madness? HELP!!!
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