Don't Capitulate to the Narcissist---You are Whole and Strong
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Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 12/6/2010 11:18 PM 
Categories: mental health, interpersonal relationships, narcissistic personality, narcissistic mother, family relationships, narcissism, narcissistic fathers, narcissistic spouse, daughters, interpersonal relations, narcissistic siblings, abusive relationships, married to a narcissist, narcissistic mothers, children, narcissistic parents
Categories: mental health, interpersonal relationships, narcissistic personality, narcissistic mother, family relationships, narcissism, narcissistic fathers, narcissistic spouse, daughters, interpersonal relations, narcissistic siblings, abusive relationships, married to a narcissist, narcissistic mothers, children, narcissistic parents
How do I deal with the lies of the narcissist? How do I deal with those that believe his lies? I have to deal my ex-husband a covert narcissist because I have to co-parent. For me, dealing with individuals we both know through our young children is difficult.He spreads lies and deception. Do I expose him? Do I wait until I am confronted by those he has told his lies to? My story is a classic example. I am a counselor and was not able to see who it was I choose to married.
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Interesting to realize that lies and deception are aleways possible. Look for another's intentions.
Become your own detective and follow steps that are essential to uncover truth. What is real, not merely allegations or fabrications can be substantiated, verified through evidence.
Distortion and manipulations have a self benefiting purpose,having no concern for wellbeing of others a premeditated outcome, very controlled as to disallow chance or risk.
Hearing allegations or defamation of your character from sources certainly is painful, but is also part of a narcissists pathological disorder, becoming a suffering victim to gain an advantage of sympathy of others that are willing to hear "words" and not ask for any accountability but assume all is truthful.
For your sake begin to keep a journal, record dates, times, factual info. that you will maintain and use as a reference guide to keep your own sanity and focusalso for legal purposes.
There is nothing you can do to prevent the others action, but knowing when they have crossed illegal lines will have implications and consequences.
A narcissist will stay within best behavior if aware that others are watching and are not buying into his sad pathetic story.
Integrity becomes your most essential tool, set a standard for yourself and terms that the other must abide by. Setting firm boundaries that create emotional distance and clearly defined lines of accountability and responsible action,this will dinstinctly set you apart from the implusive nature and irrationality of the disordered narcissist.
Personalities do not suddenly become disordered,but become uncontrolable and dangerous, protect yourself against further damage.
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I agree with this, people really do need to protect their selves from these insane narcissists.
Narcissists are suffering from psychopathy their COLD, AGGRESSIVE, EGO CENTRIC, AND IMPULSIVE. Not very safe to be in their company, they only get worse, never better. I've heard it softens a little in their rotten old age but who wants to wait for that?
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