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Many narcissists are obsessed with money. Their attention is always on accumulating more and more possessions. The pursuit of money and what it can buy are part of the narcissist's psychological supplies which keeps his or her ego fully inflated. The tables turn and the narcissist speaks differently when their marriage goes south and divorce is on the horizon. The narcissist suddenly pivots and becomes a "down on the heels martyr" who has no financial assets of any kind. This fraud of a person has hidden his wealth, suspecting that he will have to share it with his wife and family.

I want to give you two pieces of advice: interview in-depth and choose the best attorney you can find who understands this kind of individual and who has tremendous experince in domestic law. Secondly, take good care of yourself on every level---physically, emotionally, psychologically and if it is your orientation, spiritually. Put on your most powerful intuition cap and realize that there isn't any ploy that the narcissist won't try to defeat you. Make sure your attorney understand the intricacies of how assets can be hidden so that they can be retrieved. Some individuals benefit from excellent psychotherapy during this very difficult time.Organize a support froup of close friends whom you trust on very level. Take care of your physical health with nutrition and exercise. Practice  meditation and yoga or another modality that helps you so that you can reduce your stress and anxiety during this very difficult time and if you have children, you will help keep them centered and feeling stable. To learn about every facet of the narcissistic personality disorder, visit my website: www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com

Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.

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