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Separating from a narcissistic spouse is painful and complicated. Being married to a narcissist the spouse lives in psychological fusion with a person who is in denial of reality, deluded, convinced him or she is superior to others and in a word, "perfect." When you throw your destiny in with a narcissist, his pathology will rub off on you. The narcissist interferes and blocks your way to becoming a separate unique individual with the use of all of your many gifts---creative, communicative, inventive. You have turned your personal power over to the narcissist---your initiative, drive, your own reason for being. Narcissists chip away at your feelings of confidence and self entitlement.
 
When you are too exasperated, exhausted, wiped out by the narcissist's domination domonation of your life. and you make the decision to separate your destiny from his, this is a moment of great opportunity---it is a chance to become individuated---this is our destiny. This means that you now take all of your potential, your personal history, your unique creative gifts, initiative and use it to fulfill your destiny as a complete human being. We are in the process of individuation of our lives.  Freeing ourselves from the narcissist puts us back on the pathway to reclaiming our true selves. Visit my website:www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com 

Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
Telephone Consultation: United States and International
Email: lmlphd@thenarcissistinyourlife.com