Merciless Narcissistic Mothers
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The narcissistic mother has no mercy. Many who write to me are waiting for their narcissistic mothers to show them love, attention and compassion. All childen of narcissistic mothers are harmed in a variety of ways. Some are physically beaten, mentally and psychologically abused. The entire household is held hostage to the narcissistic mother. Only those children she has chosen as "special" are treated with deference. Her "pets" are given full reign, never corrected and are allowed to treat their brothers and sisters with rampant cruelty. Children in the family who are not special are spoken to with scorn and contempt. Children who survive narcissistic mothers are left with psychological scars. Many benefit from good psychotherapy and begin to heal from the consequences of having a merciless narcissistic mother. As you move toward healing, be patient and kind to yourself---like a loving mother. For specific information on all facets of the narcissistic personality disorder, visit my website: www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 5/10/2010 2:09 PM 
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: chosen children psychotherapy seduction narcissistic mothers psychological healing psychologically scarred merciless
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: chosen children psychotherapy seduction narcissistic mothers psychological healing psychologically scarred merciless
Anyone who has a Narcissistic Mother I would advise them Don't bother holding out any hope that your Mother will change and become the Loving caring Mother you're hoping for, because it just wont happen, Mothers who are narcissists are born without a conscience and have no ability to care for the child who has been chosen as the scapegoat, in short she couldn't care less if you live or die, you're merely there for her to ridicule, hurt, belittle, criticize, condemn, and treat with less respect than a worm in the earth, she wont change she doesn't want to, you're just there as her battering ram, her punch bag, and to make her feel good, so just give it up, it is a losing battle you're fighting and the more she knows you want her to care the more she enjoys making your life a misery. Hard as it may be the best thing you can do is try to walk away, you really must consider your own life and well being, above that of your cruel heartless Mother. You and your children will be so much better off if you cut your ties with your NMother.You're worth so much more.
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as a P.S. to my previous post, Dont think that your Narcissist Mother will mellow with age, OMG they do NOT mellow one iota, if anything they are worse as they get older, much worse, In truth if you have a Narcissist Mother, your only hope of salvaging a life for yourself is to get away from her as far as you can as quickly as you can.
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