Narcissists Hold Deep Grudges
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Narcissists never play fair. Narcissists are extreme competitors. Narcissists are very sore losers. When you cross a narcissist in business or your personal life be prepared for some form of revenge. Although the narcissist has a full blown, gandiose ego, beneath the surface he/she is subject to narcissistic wounds. His ego bruises easily. If you beat him out of a business deal, it is likely that he will go after you in some way. If you choose to divorce a narcissist, it can go several ways. He may want to get rid of you and any children you have with him and send you out of his life. In some cases the narcissist is holding a deep grudge and is determined to collect on what he knows is his. In divorce matters, he makes outlandish claims and tells outright lies about his spouse in order to win the battle. In order to deal with narcissistic grudges and their outlandish sense of entitlement, study this pathology intently. Work with yourself to lessen your personal stress. Some spouses participate in good psychotherapy in dealing with their overreactions to the narcissist and in lessening their stress and becoming emotionally detached from them. You can learn to deal with these individuals without overreacting to them and by maintaining a solid sense of inner stregth. Visit my website:
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Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 5/6/2010 10:39 AM 
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: hold grudges extreme competitors revenge sore losers superior child custody divorce a narcissist good psychotherapy perfect child
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: hold grudges extreme competitors revenge sore losers superior child custody divorce a narcissist good psychotherapy perfect child
I accept the article here is mostly in regards to m/f relationships, however, Narcissistic Mothers (Fathers) too can hold some seriously deep grudges, I know my own late NMother did, I showed her a piece I was intending to add to a Family Tree website some 6 months before she died, when she read it she was furious, and threw me one of her I hate you looks, as if to say, you put this on any website and God help you.
In that instant I knew I had made the biggest mistake ever in showing her what I had written about her, it was the truth, but as seen in my eyes, she knew it was the truth too, I now know I should not have even mentioned it to her. She made sure she got her revenge in the evilest of ways, in a way that also ensured no other family member would take any notice of what I had written about her at anytime in the future.
How she had her revenge for my writing the piece in question, by the time she died she had managed to convince my entire family, the nursing staff and hospital administration of where she died that I was out to get her, to rob her, I so say bullied and threatened her, I had stolen from her, I was a drug addict,and lots more besides. She literally turned the whole of my family against me, I didnt go to her funeral, the tension between family members and myself was horrendous. So I stayed away I knew it was in my best interest to do so, plus I would have felt a hypocrite mourning a person who had hated me and told me as much frequently, She meant it too. Beware if you cross a Narcissist theyll settle the score without a doubt. Tread Carefully. Even though members of my family knew how she had treated me over the years they were still turned against me by what she had told them.
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