4/20/2010 7:13 AM
Donna wrote:
Outstanding comment! As you say, the constant drama and demands of a narcissist wear you down psychologically. I agree that this either causes, or exacerbates, some physical illnesses, and that one must exercise extreme determination of will to counter the torent of abuse and safeguard one's health. Thank you for this comment. It solidifies and affirms my resolve to distance myself from my N-mother and N-sister. Your post is spot-on with a capital "S"! ~Donna Reply to this
4/24/2010 6:18 PM
mikki wrote:
Their requests are endless, and they are never satisfied. It seems they believe their closest are put on the earth to serve their every whim, thought, desire. If you are on the phone, they fight for you attention. They care for no one but themselves and in the end will even declare that you do nothing for them. It is so exhausting just to keep a little peace. Reply to this
4/27/2010 11:09 AM
Alicia wrote:
A narcissist or sociopath CAN make you sick indeed. I am out now but, I had adrenal failure from the stress and developed PTSD. Get out while you still have your health. They do not get better and they do NOT care what happens to you and never will. It's impossible for them to care and it's not worth staying with one of these damaged individuals. I am now on medication for adrenal failure for the rest of my life. Reply to this
5/2/2010 8:42 PM
mikki wrote:
Thanks Alicia! I will be leaving soon. I know how destructive they can be so I am timing it. I know I can't take anymore. I now just ignore him as much as possible. He will still argue with himself and the other day declared that, "He is God." He said this in all seriousness and declared that I am his "servant" He said that the sooner I understand this the better for me. They are extremely pathetic. He thinks that I am not free until he "frees me". But instead, I will "free him" sooner than he thinks, so that he can move his destructive evil on to his next HOST. I am dried up! Reply to this
Outstanding comment! As you say, the constant drama and demands of a narcissist wear you down psychologically. I agree that this either causes, or exacerbates, some physical illnesses, and that one must exercise extreme determination of will to counter the torent of abuse and safeguard one's health. Thank you for this comment. It solidifies and affirms my resolve to distance myself from my N-mother and N-sister. Your post is spot-on with a capital "S"! ~Donna
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Their requests are endless, and they are never satisfied. It seems they believe their closest are put on the earth to serve their every whim, thought, desire. If you are on the phone, they fight for you attention. They care for no one but themselves and in the end will even declare that you do nothing for them. It is so exhausting just to keep a little peace.
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A narcissist or sociopath CAN make you sick indeed. I am out now but, I had adrenal failure from the stress and developed PTSD. Get out while you still have your health. They do not get better and they do NOT care what happens to you and never will. It's impossible for them to care and it's not worth staying with one of these damaged individuals. I am now on medication for adrenal failure for the rest of my life.
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Thanks Alicia! I will be leaving soon. I know how destructive they can be so I am timing it. I know I can't take anymore. I now just ignore him as much as possible. He will still argue with himself and the other day declared that, "He is God." He said this in all seriousness and declared that I am his "servant" He said that the sooner I understand this the better for me. They are extremely pathetic. He thinks that I am not free until he "frees me". But instead, I will "free him" sooner than he thinks, so that he can move his destructive evil on to his next HOST. I am dried up!
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