No More Narcissistic Husbands
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I have received a number of emails from women who have twice married narcissistic men. For those women who have already been through the ordeal of marriage to and divorce from a narcissist, remember what caught you in their web,what kept you there and how you exited. The spouse is part of the perfect image the narcissist projects. The narcissist takes over your life. Protect yourself from the narcissist's entrapments. Feel your deserved self entitlement and your creativity and freedom. Visit my website: www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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Email: lmlphd@thenarcissistinyourlife.com
Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 4/3/2010 12:36 PM 
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: successful narcissists married to narcissist divorce nightmare financial damage narcissistici husbands psychological damage
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: successful narcissists married to narcissist divorce nightmare financial damage narcissistici husbands psychological damage
I obviously attract narcissistic men. I think my first husband bordered on one and my current husband is a full-blown NPD. I think I have always appeared really nice and vunerable. I am now a "b" who has no problem standing up for myself. Nevertheless, you can't go toe to toe with a narcissist because they are cruel, ruthless and have absolutely no limits or boundaries. There's nothing they won't do to win or humiliate their significant other.
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Yup, that's my husband! He blames, "it's all you" "It's not me" He has called me every name you can think of (bad) but can do a 360 and call to say he loves me. He knows my weak spots to gouge me and that is my kids, threatens to call my former husband to XYZ me about my kids, tries to control my job by cutting me out of the picture (we work a part time thing together adn with others and he wants to hurt me financially) He goes behind my back to bad mouth me to family and friends. Yet because I am now divorcing him after his 2 filings and unlimited threats he is saying I am killing him, can't love endure all and blah blah. I have been married to him 10 years and knew him for 24. I do not believe that he is capable of change because to change one must me introspective and have empathy for the other person and realize how damaging their anger, jealousy and control is. Divorce is hard especially when you so had the dream of happily ever after and we have had fun times. As hard as this is I think to salvage my self respect (and I am a strong woman who is financially independent) that I must divorce him. How many times do you let a husband cry wolf, buy a house behind your back and justify every rotten thing he has done with a blame on me reason. I am fed up and unfortunately love him but enough is enough.
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