Always Remember the True Nature of the Narcissist
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Clever narcissists woo us. We can be mesmerized by them. The narcissist at full throttle can be irresistible to almost everyone. As you get swept away, always remember the true character of the narcissist. By the time the narcissist comes to you with his promises to change your life, his psychic structure is immutably fixed. You cannot have an authentic relationship with a narcissistic personality. Reclaim yourself as a separate person with unique capabilities, talents, energies. To learn more about the intricacies of the narcissistic personality disorder, visit my website: www.thearcissistinyourlife.cm
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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Posted by LindaMartinezLewi at 3/23/2010 1:58 PM 
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: narcissist social skills irresistible narcissistic personality narcissistic charm
Categories: self help, narcissism, mental health, interpersonal relationships
Tags: narcissist social skills irresistible narcissistic personality narcissistic charm
They also exaggerate and distort truths and fabricate retarded "broadway" version of events with their pathological lying and put downs. They enjoy the warped feeling they get when they spin their jaw dropping disturbed wasted comments on others. They were blessed with a forked tongue and have no remorse in creating a living hell for anyone who uncovers their lies. For many years my N Mother upset me to the point I would loose days and days due to it, and thought that I was “over sensitive”.
Now that I have it down pat and worked it out (NPD & Gas Lighting) - I am free to some degree and I now use it back at her when and if I'm struck with it again.
If these people are so insecure as they say, for all the hurt she has put me through for no reason for so many years, I feel better at giving it back now ten fold and know how to play it back and make her suffer even more in her own little disturbed world that she dragged me through. Sounds harsh, though now I feel better and on top of it - 40 years later. I now listen carefully to ‘key words’, and without the emotional attachment to her anymore, I can now carefully construct a line of backfire which she never would of expected before. It confuses them and it does make them back off. She is now left wondering how on earth I ever got so clever.
N Mother’s whole life is a lie. There is Public Records office and I had to get a lot of information from there. She is still wondering where I got my information from. She doesn’t have a lot to do with any of our family (they’re not good enough for her), though I don’t know them either due to her. When I did mention a little bit of information I did uncover – she back peddled and I’m sure she withdrew into her tiny little hole. I feel better now, I haven’t heard from her since thank god.
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