A high functioning narcissist mesmerizes almost everyone. He or she has a magnetism, like a strong electric current that draws people in. Narcissists are often quite attractive, beautiful, handsome, well spoken, socially adept. They are constantly burnishing their images.  How he or she appears to others is one of the singular forces in the narcissist's life. For the narcissist, image and identity are inextricably intertwined.  

On the outside the narcissist seems to have it all. With their extraordinary sense of entitlement and self confidence, these individuals scale the highest echelons of power in the corporate, entrepreneurial and entertainment worlds. They know how to work any system to get what they want. The high level narcissist is a quick learner. He understands how to ingratiate himself to those who inhabit the innermost circles of power and influence. The narcissist  uses his charm to camouflage his ruthless, relentless drive to the top.     

Everyone in the narcissist's life must be under his control. In his professional and private life, he is the ultimate authority.. The narcissist wrests full control in the private lives of his spouses, children and other family members. He makes all the decisions, injecting his will on  determining the trajectory of their lives.  If a family member defies the narcissist, he is intimidated into submission. If that ploy is ineffective, the narcissist demonizes and banishes this individual from the family. Narcissists play one person against another to protect and secure their power. They use lies, innuendos, psychological and monetary bribes to sustain their ultimate control. 

Narcissists deny and dismiss the psychological, financial, or health problems their actions have caused, even the most egregious acts. Narcissists leave the lives of others in total wreckage as they move forward, ready to masterfully conquer the next grandiose goal that awaits them.  

Understanding the core personality dynamics of the narcissist,  learning to anticipate and deflect his intricate plots and games, and   mastering the art of detaching yourself from the narcissist and becoming immune to his ruthless ploys, puts you in the psychological driver's seat, victoriously in charge of your own life.  Visit my website:www.thenarcissistinyourlife.com

Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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